With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, I wanted to tie in with the famous “Galentine’s Day” to create its gentleman’s version with “Gentletine’s Day.” I say the word “create” humbly, as I couldn’t find anything on this term during my research, and what describes itself as “Palentine’s Day” didn’t match my initial idea. 

Why Gentletine’s Day?

Don’t believe I think men deserve to be celebrated more for their achievements in society. Instead, I applaud women for their efforts in breaking down barriers and shattering glass ceilings. I support the idea of challenging traditional norms and promoting greater equality, rather than allowing the status quo to prevail, as is often the case in many countries around the world. 

In contrast, I believe that men should engage in conversations with each other. There must be a valid explanation for the distressing trend of many men who mistreat, marginalize, and disregard women. Jean-Nicolas Verrreault, an actor and host, discussed this issue in the documentary “Les gars, faut qu’on se parle” on the Noovo channel (in French).

The concept of the Gentletine’s Day emerged as a way to honour the gentlemen in our lives. It could be celebrated in the days leading up to Valentine’s Day for those in relationships, or even on the day itself, regardless of your own plans or those of your friends. 

How does it all work?

We would like to celebrate gentlemen, so, yes, ladies, you’re invited. However, please don’t monopolize the evnt; the Gentletine’s Day is an occasion for men to talk, listen, share and enjoy an amazing night, brunch or afternoon.  

The aperitif

Start with a delicious rosé champagne. Rosé is not just for women; it’s a sophisticated champagne that requires a lot of work. Try Bollinger Rosé (Grande Année or Rosé Brut), Telmont Rosé, Moët & Chandon Rosé (Impérial or Grand Vintage), Dom Pérignon or the famous Laurent-Perrier Cuvée Brut Rosé.

If you’re looking for a locally produced effervescent rose, consider the Domaine Bergeville Rosé from Québec, or the Limestone Spark! Rosé from Tawse are two excellent options. Serve this elixir with a luxurious foie gras on delicious brioche bread. Why not add a touch of caviar and oysters? This is a refined celebration where you want to be in a pleasant atmosphere so that tongues can loosen and open and talk to each other. So indulge a little more while remaining in moderation. Be sure to plan your ride home, too. After all, it’s a special occasion, so make it memorable, but also enjoyable. If you’ve consumed too much alcohol, refrain from driving.   

The meal

For the main meal, a duck breast will be incredible. Indulge yourself with a generous portion of buttery and creamy potatoes. Alternatively, opt for a colossal cut of meat, such as a “Tomahawk”, ensuring you have the necessary equipment to grill it to perfection. Don’t forget the vegetables. 

Cooking is an activity that can bring great pleasure, especially when you can speak freely. To enhance this experience, we recommend a top-quality red wine, such as Stratus, Clos Jordanne or Le Grand Vin d’Osoyoos Larose from Canada, a Tignanello, Sassicaia or Ornellia from Italy, or a Petrus, Cos d’Estournel, Lafitte Rothschild or Château Latour from France.

Dessert

Let’s return to the rose sparkling wine that we previously mentioned, or perhaps a rose ice wine, such as the outstanding Stratus variety. Alternatively, you could opt for a liqueur, such as Grand Marnier, or a cognac, like Rémy Martin XO or Hennessy XO. 

When it comes to dessert, if you choose rosé sparkling wine, opt for a dessert that features a red fruit flavour, such as raspberry or a dish that will enhance the fruit’s freshness and add a touch of sophistication.

If you choose liquors, consider indulging in a rich and decadent dessert, such as a creamy chocolate mousse or a velvety French Mi-Cuit Chocolate Cake.     

The conclusion of the meal

In this case, we propose a triumphant duo: Scotch and a cigar. The cigar is optional for those who don’t smoke, but it can be a very pleasant addition on special occasions.   

A gentlemen decor to celebrate Gentletine’s Day

Yes, we’re close to Valentine’s Day, but we don’t want the decor to be too feminine, so go for dark reds and Burgundies, whether in the tablecloths, the flowers (yes, men can give each other flowers) or the balloons. Don’t be too extravagant, decorate with class, and don’t let your red colour palette explode. You can, however, celebrate with accessories in these tones on your plates, although serving on a white plate with a coloured one underneath is even better.

In short, I think you understand.

How to dress for Gentletine’s Day

Dress to impress! Opt for a sharp suit and a dapper tie, polished shoes, and a well-kept appearance. Make it a memorable occasion and incorporate these guidelines. You can even assign your Gentletine’s Day a theme, such as a James Bond-inspired or any other gentlemanly film.

No cell phones, no digital watches. This is an opportunity to talk to each other. If you want photos, bring a camera. It’ll keep you off the grid.

What topics should be discussed?

Many men struggle to communicate openly and share their thoughts. To overcome this challenge, it’s essential to create a lively and lighthearted environment where any topic is fair game. Consider a word game that allows participants to discuss sensitive subjects in a more enjoyable context. Share personal experiences and anecdotes that relate to the subject matter. Engage in debates about political viewpoints and exchange ideas. While you may not always see eye-to-eye, finding common ground is possible. 

Above all, support each other. Say that you want to help your friends find a solution. 

The Gentletine’s Day is a celebration should be enjoyable and produce positive outcomes. It’s not just about sharing food and drink; it’s more than that. 

Please use the name and share it with anyone who identifies as a gentleman or a man who strives to be one.